A few quick steps that have helped me
1. Stop Feeling Sorry for Yourself because you are not doing yourself or your future any good by throwing a pity party. I have had phases in my life where i could have felt sorry for myself. building in this profession over the years. I've bee a single woman trying to get a man; I've been a girlfriend trying to keep a man; I've been a wife dealing with a man; and now I am a divorced single mom without a man.But dont feel sorry for me, because I dont feel sorry for myself. If I had felt sorry for myself in any of the phases in my career, I would not be whom Iam today and thats a 7-figure earning network marketer. So dont feel SORRY for yourself.
2. Embrace the pain. You cant go over it, you cant go under it, you cant go around it; you can only go through it. And I can hear some saying, you just dont know my pain and I dont. I dont know your pain but I'll give you a snippet of mine.
In 2013, I lost my mum.
In 2014, I lost my sister.
In 2015, I lost my husband.
In 2016, I have spent all of 2016 trying to make that official and I can tell you I know pain.
But let me just share this, this time last year I didnt act like this, didnt talk like this, didnt feel like this and I finally had to use my personal development on myself. I had to say to myself, you've got to go through the pain.
And you know what? A better version of me was waiting on the other side. If you are able to embrace the pain, you too will be able to experience the better version of yourselves.
3. Dont Compare. The comparison is the thief of all joy. It will make you bitter, resentful, jealous and unproductive, And many of us are looking at other people, comparing our cars to theirs, our buisnesses to theirs, our relationship to theirs. But I'm gonna tell you right now, dont compare ladies because that woman you think her life is better than yours; Guess WHAT! her lashes, her hair, her nails, her height is fake just like yours boo so dont even worry about it.
4. Get Excited. Dont just get excited about where you are going. but get excited about where you are right now. Bad situation and all. If you are facing the biggest fight in your life get excited about that because God doesn't give big fights to little soilders. So if you are facing a big fight it means you have grown up in the armor that you are ready to wear, that only he knew you were ready to wear.
So I just want you real quick to get excited. Get excited because you are the creator of your destiny, the artist of your masterpiece, the author of your story.
Get excited because the world is going to see you for whom you really are. That is kind, caring, compassionate, bold, strong and all out Bad Ass!!!
Inspired by - TIFFANY MALOTT (Go Pro Recruiting Mastery 2016)
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